If you want to ask me a simpler question, I am game! vertex conjunct moon and ascendant in scorpio can make it dark too? Please, keep giving your opinion. For example, I am the moon person and my mars also falls in his 8th and much of what you described for moon/pluto conjunction sounds like us. The story of Eros and Psyche is one of deep and transformative love, but their union was not devoid of hardship. Astrology 101 Astrophilosophy 1.8K subscribers Subscribe 119 3K views 1 year ago Eros and Venus in. Eros in a synastry chart. tell me your story, if you care to, Juice dear. Im trying really, really hard not to jump to conclusions, so any help or advice you could give would be very much appreciated. How will these aspects play out? Thats like saying everyone with their own natal mars square pluto aspect makes them destined to be molested. Things dont come out until marriage, sometimes. I do Astrology the way that I would want to learn it. Nonetheless, your interpretation of dejanira and nessus is intriguing. Hi Ami. In fact, it is the opposite. We`ve known each other for a few months and generally it is a good relationship. TEA & ROSEMARY LLC. Ive only been studying astrology casually for 5 years, so even though I know the basic interpretation of those planets in contact, Id still love to hear it from a pro love your blog! We can still find a lot of info with no time of birth. PS I checked the synastry of a man I know for sure was abused by his own father physically and emotionally, throughout his childhood, and this mans Nessus is conjunct his fathers Sun. under what theme of the forum? Currently you have JavaScript disabled. This is a difficult aspect, but the couple often meets in this life to try and heal the wound. This is a general rule, my Friend. What about my nessus conjunct his descendant? Eros is looking for his equal to explore the realm of creative intimacy. What are your thoughts? 10. Will be keeping my wits about me. Your posts are starting to scare me now Ami. You, as the Pluto in the trine with his Sun and venus could kind of see through him lol, Thank you Amy for your reply We are both passionate, but luckily, by nature, not violent people thank God . Most important to me is that you find Jesus. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. my mars is there too though, trining his Scorpio pluto 0.25 we have physical heat but plenty of fighting. I am for the stark, bare truth cuz that is what heals. Mars conj Saturn is not good. There is so few information on these aspects so I really appreciate reading more about it here and in the forum. Thank you Ivs. I know how important moon moon aspects are to you, Venus pluto aspects Thank you for your reply. There are millions of possible outcomes, and none should be claimed as the truth. You example above is only if a woman has Dejanira conjunct a mans ASC, Sun, Moon, Mercury, Mars, Venus or NN, you will be his victim. Any feedback on the roles being reversed? Nessus and Dejanira do most certainly not mean abuse. Eros represents what turns us on. Or can my Sun hurt the person. If you have a dominant Dejanira, you will be a victim. Check out our 40+ page relationship astrology eBook! Wow. That is why I dont mince words. She is deeply alluring and irresistible. The asteroid Eros plays a role in sexual attraction as well. I just want to let people know that things are not as clean cut and set in astrology as it is written sometimes because things that are presented as the only possible, likely truth will make people will fear astrology and the people around them if they look into isolated aspects from small asteroids and planets alike. I just never have, not that it is not good. I know there are astrologers who make every aspect positive but I dont think that is real and real is what heals and real is what gets people mad at you too lol. I also have moon trine neptune, venus conjunction chiron snd more aspects to do with empathy. I know this is an article for synastry, but Im a little worried about my natal chart after reading about Nessus and Dejanira. Does nessus still be working as a tendency to abuse? He has a strong nessus (conjunct with his sun + true node in cancer ). Im pluto and he is the moon. xx, haha you are so cute, I like you and you write very simple and easy to understand. I am worried about being the abuser here. Is this you? So the theory doesnt check out. Maybe, maybe not. The same with nessus conjunct ASC? My sun and deja are on his nn. Playing with someones emotions when these aspects are involved could lead to bad things such as violence. We talk about it often (3rd house moon overlay) its just a bit overwhelming sometimes like a sweet dream one moment, then an absolute nightmare. Where did you get these theories from? It sounds really bad I guess, but this person has given me so much positivity and encouragement and I feel has set me on a positive path. OkI really cant comment on the sign, per se. I love you and hope you write to me to say hello or to ask questions. It is not good to have a base level view on what will happen with one isolated aspect. Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a. It is opinion, not truth. What about Nessus conjunct Dejanira in synastry and there is no abuse whatsoever, what would that mean? Now, we come to things that could really make the relationship dark. the Moons will make for best friends. We do not have enough information on every aspect, and never will because again, no interpretation is set in stone to be able to tell someone that something is most certainly going to happen. Hats off to your courage. What does that mean? Mars pluto aspects Isis Conjunct the Vertex. I hope I can do this in my articles. . Theyre both devoted and kind people and Ive known her since we were teens. It needs to be 3 degrees, tops, so no worries there! That being said, the charts WILL play out, imo and ime. I need to put it altogether after several hours of study to answer well. Sorry for the late reply. That doesnt mean youve never been married. To learn more about the past life, look at the aspect, the houses in which the planets sit, and the signs. The conjunction is especially strong, but the trine, square, and opposition can also indicate a past life connection or marriage. When/if that turns bad, it could become dark. More about Synastry (relationship Astrology) Intermediate and advanced students of Astrology might enjoy our article, SoulMate . M. What are the exact Sun/pluto aspects Maria? You do not have to do their chart. YOU are the most important person to me. I bet that the son was still the abuser though, even if he was the victim, as a child. If anything, Ive suffered abuse from others at times. Click here for instructions on how to enable JavaScript in your browser. I reply to the comments out of order because I do it on the central comment form. There`s also lot of growth and sweetness and nothing that amounts to abuse. From the outsider's perspective, Eros and the Ascendant person will seem as if they are living the romantic experience only witnessed in films. Aww Fluffy As such, I would be careful and watchful. How does that play out? This pairing can form a deep emotional bond, especially through physical intimacy. As one of the four largest asteroids (along with Vesta, Pallas, and Juno), Ceres is usually analyzed in the birth chart. The pairing can easily fulfill the other's sexual desires and unlock some of their naughty fantasies. Lets hope more info comes out about this connection.:). All this is square my Moon. It brings you back to the time when you were a child and truly powerless. You lose about 25% but still have about 75%. Conjunctions, oppositions, and trines are best. There is precious little practical info out there on asteroids. Would appreciate some insight!! Can my Fortuna have some healing effect? All of astrology is neutral. His nessus is in conjunction with his true node in geminis (in opposition to my uranus and my vesta). Synastry When a person's natal moon forms a conjunction with someone's Eros, or vice versa, this can be a very sexualbut very intenserelationship. Retro makes one thoughtful, so I do not see it as bad as many do. His dejanira is in opposition to his vertex. It is disrespect to Astrology which I love and respect. Once awakened, no matter how untamed the experience becomes, we are given a rare opportunity to integrate, redeem and restore Eros and Lilith to a place of honor through shared, transcendental sexual activity. Things were so passionate that we were bankrupting ourselves on planet tickets, so after a whirlwind 4 month courtship I quit my job and moved in with him- on the other side of the country. Lilith is looking for sacred sex. Do you see what I mean. His Eros is on her Descendant and her Eros makes a square to his Sun and conjuncts his Vertex. Eros is looking for his equal to explore the realm of creative intimacy. It wasn't until he began to withhold sex from me that I finally crumbled. so what would it be? She has never treated me as less than, and she is extremely giving. I have more compassion for myself, and I feel validated some ~ not to identify more as a victim. I often am able to get away in time, and at other times I can get away only to a certain degree. If you do not have either of these in the natal but have them in synastry, it will play out the same way. Thank you, amiann. However, if the time is right, for sure, I would trust the chart over a personal account. Lilith Conjunct Ascendant Synastry Sun Conjunct Lilith Synastry This connection will burn as hot as the sun! I am prone to being attacked in this way. The wonderful thing about this aspect, especially with the conjunction is that love is brought into the lives of both, even if . We have moons in conjunction in gemini; His venus and mars are in conjunction with my venus in Aquarius. 5. The Saturn person may kind of ride the back of the Mars person. You truly made my day! Great questions. The conjunction is excact. The 12th house is all about past life astrology, so the planets can always be applied to past lives as well as the current life. in case his vertex in my moon and ascendant *. It is the passion of lovers and the pure, primal love of a mother for her baby. The conjunction is, in my opinion, the only aspect that clearly dictates a marriage between these specific people. The first would be Nessus. -Eros conjunct their personal planets ( Sun,Moon,Venus, Mars etc.). That might be how theyre playing out their Nessus-Dejanira, though Im not sure since they also have a lot of mutual Uranus and Pluto contacts to inner planets and both Ascendants. It always starts this way. Hi, The Fortuna would, likely, bring good fortune to the vertex person, likely in the arena of money. Is this something that reliably and consistently is reflected in a variety of different charts? Before I leave this subject, I will add my theory. My mother has her Nessus conjunct my sun and she has it conjunct her own north node, and my Dejanira is conjunct her moon, and there has NEVER been any type of abuse. Pluto trine Venus, Venus quincunx Pluto Eros in Aries makes a person love the chase. Things DO offset things but one must look at everything to see a final answer which is my goal when doing charts.I am not trying to sell myself here, just trying to show that your question is too deep for a quick answer, my Friend. Obviously the hard ones, like by a square or an opposition, adding to the (possibly) destructive passion! This would take a whole chart reading. This can indicate marriage, but it can also indicate a long-term romantic or sexual relationship. You don't need to BELIEVE in Jesus to come here and/or to contact me. In the rare instance where these two do meet, the results are truly awe inspiring . Both of them are loaded with sexual power, so their interaction is often explosive. Eros and Psyche were mythical lovers, and were brought together by fate. Would you liken moon/pluto dynamics to an 8th house moon overlay? One person is kind of riding the other one in this. What I wanted to know first was what past lives we had together. Grace dear With any Chiron aspect to the other persons Juno, there was a wound created through marriage in a past life. Do we exile her from consciousness or build her a sanctuary for potent, creative expression?